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Thursday, November 09, 2017

Methods of cutting nails.


Method of cutting nails...!!

'Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates the way of cutting the nails: FOR THE RIGHT HAND: start of with the index finger, forefinger, ring finger and little finger, then moving onto the LEFT HAND: little finger, ring finger, forefinger, index finger, thumb and lastly the thumb of the right hand. Then to wash the hands after cutting the nails.

Diagrams of hand & feet
EASY METHOD: - Follow the numbering on this picture.

For toe nails - Start with the right foot small toe and proceed until the big toe, then start with the left foot big toe and & conclude with the small toe (Semi-circle). There is no specified way recorded for trimming the nails but it is better to use the same method that Khilal (wiping in between the toes in ablution) is done.

Request: It is requested that you also follow this blessed Sunnah and cut your nails in this manner. The biggest benefit one can gain is that if you teach others the Sunnah and they act upon it then you will gain the reward for this until it is practised and passed on, Insha-Allah!

What to do with them: After cutting the nails and hair of the body, one should collect them all and bury them, since we all are made from soil and thus the hair and nails should be put back to the earth.

The consequence of keeping long nails
1. There will be no blessing in your wealth.
2. You will become poor.
3. Illness will plague you.
4. Allah (The Exalted) and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) will be displeased with you.
5. The devil sits on long nails.

Follow the Sunnah and spread the teachings of prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) Jazaka Allah.

Do not wait!!!

DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30.



Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.


Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow
with them. 

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. 

You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. 

You might still not succeed
at your target year.

 So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.


My father said this to me: 

When i was 25, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.


Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... 

I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love
of my life very early, But my fear was, can i
really take care of her? But right now She's married with
Four grown up children. 

The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.


They worked hard and succeeded together.

 I
failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. 

You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait.


Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

 Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. 

But they
are happier with their families..


Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.


Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!


Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..

What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.


Please young men, take my advice seriously.
Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink,
with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God grace....Amen

Focus on Your Creator, not his Creations.

A son went to his father and said, “I won't be going to the Masjid anymore!”
He said, “May I ask  why?”
He answered, “I see people on their cell phones during Salah, others are gossiping, some are not acting appropriately, they are all just hypocrites!”
The Father became silent, and said, “OK... But can I ask you to do something for me before you make your final decision?”
He said, “What’s that?”
The father said, “Take a glass of water and walk around the Masjid 2 times and don't let any water fall out the glass.”
He agreed to do what his father asked. After awhile he came back and said it's done.
The father then asked his son 3 questions.
“1. Did you see anybody on their phone?
2. Did you hear anyone gossiping? 3. Was anyone behaving wrong?”
He answered, “I didn't see anything  nor did I hear anything because I was too busy focussing on not spilling the glass, so the water wouldn't fall.”
He told him, “when you go to the Masjid, you should be  focused on your Creator and not on the creation, only then you can receive the true benefit of being in the House of Almighty Allah!”

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ANTI VIRUS ! INSTALL NOW !



Like a computor virus can be the cause of corruption of files and deletion and loss of all work, the viruses of Riyaa (show/ostentation), Ujub (vanity/conceit), Kibr (pride) and other sins have similar consequences.



They destroy and delete good works.


May Allah Ta’ala purify and protect us.

The importance of Flour.

Have a bag of flour handy in all our kitchens.

Please read properly: Have a bag of flour handy in all our kitchens and let everyone know where it is.

🔥A woman's experience with burns ...🔥
   
Some time ago I was cooking some corn and stuck my fork in the boiling water to see if the corn was ready. I missed and my hand went into the boiling water....!!

A friend of mine, who was a Vietnam vet, came into the house, as I was screaming, & asked me if I had some plain old wheat flour...

I pulled out a bag and he stuck my hand in it. He told me to keep my hand in the flour for 10 minutes.

He said, In Vietnam , there was a guy on fire and in their panic, they threw a bag of flour all over him to put the fire out...Well, it not only put the fire out, but he never even had a blister!!!!

... Long story short, I put my hand in the bag of flour for 10 mins, pulled it out and did not even have a red mark or a blister & absolutely NO PAIN.

Now, I keep a bag of flour in the fridge and every time I burn myself. *Cold flour feels even better than room temperature flour.

I use the wheat flour and have never ever had even a red spot/burn mark, or a blister!

I even burnt my tongue once, put the flour on it for about 10 minutes .... the pain was gone and no burn.

Try it . . . Experience a miracle! 

Keep a bag of flour in your fridge and you will be happy you did!

Flour has heat absorbant property and also is strong antioxident property. Thus helps in burns patient if apllied within 15 minutes.

Thanks.

The Call to Prayer (Athaan).

Praise be to Allah Almighty       
       
(The Call to Prayer)

Blessings and salutations be upon the best of Creation (Muhammad) Peace be upon him, his family members, all his companions, may Allah bless them all and bless us as well. Aameen

A few words about Athaan (the call to prayer)..

👉Do you know when Salah really starts? Would you say at “Allahu Akbar”? Actually, it starts way before then. It starts with the Athaan! The Prophet says, *“Each one of you is (really) in a state of prayer as he awaits (to perform) the Salah.”* Athaan signals you to prepare yourself for your upcoming meeting with Allah (Salah). It should summon those feelings of humbleness and humility felt when reminded of Allah. Thus, you are already in Salah because you are now in that Salah mindset!

🗣Athaan also expels Satan, since upon hearing it, he flees with anger and rage! Knowing this fact- that he’s no longer there to distract you, should improve your concentration in prayer and help you attain that needed level of humbleness and humility for a beautiful satisfying prayer.

👉Athaan is your chance to augment your Salah rewards that might have been reduced due to deficiencies you could not prevent (i.e. when you drift.) So how do we augment that reward? The Prophet tells us that the Mu’athen (the one who makes the call to prayer) gets the reward of everyone who prays with him. So, for example, if 100 men pray with him, he gets the rewards of these 100 prayers. For us to accumulate a reward similar to this Mu’athen, all we need to do… is repeat the Athaan after him! “Say as they (the Mu’thens) say”- was our prophet’s tip! So imagine if you were repeating the Athaan in Mecca, where millions pray, and where one Salah equals 100,000 in worth! Imagine your rewards then! Such is Allah’s grace and generosity- A small simple act, met in return, with such immense rewards!

Shirk and its categories.

[Shirk [Polytheism] and its categories]

The opposite of Tawheed is Shirk which means in Islamic terminology – the act of associating a partner with Allah.
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[There are three types of Shirk]

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[Ash-Shirk Al-Akbar (Major Polytheism)]
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Major polytheism is to devote any form of worship to anyone other than Allah. Allah will never forgive it, nor will He accept with it any good deeds as Allah the Almighty said in [Qur'an – 4:116]:

''Verily, Allah forgives not (the sin of) setting up partners (in worship) with Him, but He forgives whom He wills sins other than that. And whoever sets up partners in worship with Allah, has indeed strayed far away.''
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The Almighty also said in [Qur'an – 5:72]:

''And the Messiah (Jesus) said: 'O Children of Israel! Worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord.' Verily, whosoever sets up partners (in worship) with Allah, then Allah has forbidden Paradise to him and the Fire will be his abode. And for the Zalimun (wrongdoers and polytheists) there are no helpers.''
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He, the Almighty, further said in [Qur'an – 25:23]:

''And We shall turn to whatever deed they (disbelievers, polytheists, sinners etc) did, and We shall make such deeds as scattered floating particles of dust.''
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The Almighty further said in [Qur'an – 39:65]:

''If you join others in worship with Allah, (then) surely, (all) your deeds will be in vain, and you will certainly be among the losers.''

He, the Almighty, also said in [Qur'an – 6:88]:

''And if they had joined in worship others with Allah, all that they used to do would have been of no benefit to them.''
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[The major polytheism (Shirk Al-Akbar) has four sub categories]
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(1)>>> Polytheism in invocation (i.e. supplicating to other than Allah), as He the Almighty said in [Qur'an – 29:65]:

''And when they embark on a ship, they invoke Allah, making their Faith pure for Him only; but when He brings them safely to land, behold, they give a share of their worship to others.''

(2)>>> Polytheism in intention, will and purpose, as it states in

[Qur'an – 11:15, 16]:

''Whosoever desires the life of the world and its glitter, to them We shall pay in full (the wages of) their deeds therein and they will have no diminution therein. They are those for whom there is nothing in the Hereafter but the Fire, and vain are the deeds they did therein. And of no effect is that which they used to do.''

(3)>>> Polytheism in obedience (i.e. showing readiness to comply with the orders of others in disobedience to Allah):

Evidence is Allah's Statement in [Qur'an – 9:31]:

''They (Jews and Christians) took their rabbis and their monks to be their lords besides Allah, (by obeying them in things that they made lawful or unlawful according to their own desires without being ordered by Allah), and (they also took as their Lord) Messiah, son of Mary, while they (Jews and Christians) were commanded (in the Torah and the Gospel) to worship none but One Ilah (God – Allah), none has the right to be worshipped but He. Glorified is He (far above is He) from having the partners they associate.''

-Its interpretation undoubtedly refers to the obedience of religious scholars (Ulama) and other people of knowledge in disobedience to Allah, and not supplicating to them. As the Prophet (Sall Allahu Alayhi Wasalam) explained to Adi Ibn Hatim (R.A) that worship here meant obedience to them in their sinful acts.

(4)>>> Polytheism in love (i.e. showing love to others which is due to Allah alone), as Allah said in [Qur'an – 2:165]:

''And of mankind are some who take (for worship) others besides Allah as rivals (to Allah); they love them as they love Allah.''
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[Ash-Shirk Al-Asghar (minor polytheism)]
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The minor polytheism is Riya' (showing off), as Allah says in [Qur'an – 18:110]:

''So whoever hopes for the meeting with his Lord, let him work righteousness and associate none as a partner in the worship of his Lord.''
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[Ash-Shirk Al-Khafi (invisible polytheism)]
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The invisible polytheism was explained by the Prophet (Sall Allahu Alayhi Wasalam):

''The invisible polytheism in this Ummah is more hidden than the track of a black ant on a black stone in a dark night.''

-Its expiation according to the Prophet's saying is:

''O Allah! Verily I seek refuge with You against ascribing partners to You knowingly; and I beg Your forgiveness for the sin which I do not know.''

May Allah the Almighty protect us all from associating partners with Him.

Headache is a means of Forgiveness from Allaah

HEADACHE: - Headache is a means of forgiveness and reward.

Abu Said al-Khudri (Radiy'Allahu'anhu) that the Prophet (Sallahu'alayhi'wa'salam) said:

صُداعُ المؤمنِ ، أو شوكةٌ يُشاكُها ، أو شيءٌ يُؤذيه ؛ يرفعُه اللهُ بها يومً القيامةٍ درجةً ، ويُكفِّرُ عنه بها ذنوبَه

“The headache that afflicts the believer, or a thorn that pricks him/her, or anything that harms him/her, Allah will raise him/her a degree on the day of resurrection and expiate his/her sins due to it” [Saheeh Targheeb no. 3434]

Also, not having headaches is a bad sign because the people destined to go to the Hell-fire do not have headaches:

Abu Hurairah (Radiy'Allahu'anhu) said: The Prophet (Sallahu'alayhi'wa'salam) said:

: فَهل وجَدْتَ هذا الصُّدَاعَ ؟ . قال : وما الصُّدَاعُ ؟ قال : عِرْقٌ يَضْرِبُ على الإنسانِ في رأسِهِ . قال : وما وجَدْتَ هذا قطُّ ! فلمَّا ولَّى قال النبيُّ صلَّى اللهُ عليهِ وسلَّمَ : مَنْ أحبَّ أنْ ينظرَ إلى رجلٍ من أهلِ النارِ ؛ فَلْيَنْظُرْ إلى هذا

“…Have you ever felt a headache? The man said: What is a headache? He (Sallau'alayhi'wa'salam) said: A vein that beats in the head of a person. The man said: No I have not experienced that ever! The Prophet (Sallahu'alahyhi'wa'salam) said: Whoever would like to see a man from the people of the Hell-fire, then look at this man!”

[Reported in Ibn Hibban and graded Hasan Saheeh by al-Albani in Saheeh Mawaarid no. 580]

Having headaches are a sign of the People of Imaan and the People of Jannah.

Hafidh Ibn Rajab (Rahimahullah) said:

وصداع الرأس من علامات أهل الإيمان وأهل الجنة

“…And headaches are from the signs of the People of Imaan and the People of Jannah..” [Lataaif al-Maa’rif pg. 153]

Then he brings the above Hadith and others.

عَنْ أَبِي الزَّيَّاتِ الْقُشَيْرِيِّ , قَالَ: دَخَلْنَا عَلَى أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ نَعُودُهُ , فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْنَا أَعْرَابِيٌّ فَقَالَ: مَا لِأَمِيرِكُمْ؟ وَأَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ يَوْمَئِذٍ أَمِيرٌ , قُلْنَا هُوَ شَاكٍ قَالَ: وَاللهِ مَا اشْتَكَيْتُ قَطُّ , أَوْ قَالَ: مَا صَدَعْتُ قَطُّ فَقَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ:” أَخْرِجُوهُ عَنِّي لِيَمُتْ بِخَطَايَاهُ , مَا أُحِبُّ أَنَّ لِي بِكُلِّ وَصَبٍ وَصَبْتُهُ حُمْرَ النَّعَمِ , وَإِنَّ وَصَبَ الْمُؤْمِنِ يُكَفِّرُ خَطَايَاهُ

On the authority of Abu Zayyaat al-Qushairi (Rahimahullah) said: “We entered upon Abu Darda (Radiy'Allahu'anhu) to visit him, when a Bedouin entered upon him. So he said: Where is your Ameer? And Abu Darda was the ameer then. So we said: He is complaining of some pain. The man said: I have not complained of anything or he said: I did not experience a headache ever! Abu Darda (Radiy'Allahu'anhu said: Remove him from me, so he dies from his sins. I do not love that for every pain/sickness that I feel that I am given red camels. For verily, the pain/illness of a believer is an expiation for his sins”

[Reported by Bayhaqi in Shuab al-Imaan no. 9436 and the Muhaqiq of the Book Mukhtaar Ahmad Nadwi graded it Jayyid]

Tuesday, November 07, 2017

Does prostrating or bowing by way of greeting come under the heading of shirk?


Praise be to Allah
Firstly: 
Prostration – and also bowing – is of two types: 
1.     Prostration by way of worship 
This type of prostration is done by way of expressing humility, submission and worship, and cannot be done for anyone except Allah, may He be glorified and exalted. Whoever prostrates to anyone other than Allah by way of worship has committed an act of major shirk.
2.     Prostration by way of greeting 
This is done by way of greeting, showing respect and honouring the person to whom the prostration is done. This kind of prostration was permissible in some of the laws revealed to Prophets before Islam, but then Islam prohibited and forbade it. So whoever prostrates to any created being by way of greeting has done a prohibited act, but he has not fallen into shirk or disbelief. 
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said:
Prostration is of two types: prostration by way of pure worship, and prostration by way of honouring and showing respect. As for the former, it can only be done for Allah.
End quote in Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa(4/361) 
And he said: The Muslims are unanimously agreed that prostration to anyone other than Allah is prohibited.
End quote from Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa(4/358) 
And he said:
The texts of the Sunnah and the consensus of the ummah indicate that it is prohibited to prostrate to anyone other than Allah according to the law brought by our Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), whether by way of greeting or worship, as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) forbade Mu‘aadh ibn Jabal to prostrate to him when he came from Syrian and prostrated to him by way of greeting. 
End quote from Jaami‘ al-Masaa’il(1/25) 
Al-Qurtubi said:
With regard to this prostration that is prohibited, the ignorant extreme Sufis have taken it as a custom in their gatherings (when they begin their dhikr and nasheeds), and when they enter upon their shaykhs and pray for forgiveness. So you see one of them, when he is overcome with ecstasy – as they claim – prostrating by putting his forehead to the ground, because of his ignorance, whether he is facing towards the qiblah or otherwise,  out of ignorance on his part. May they be doomed! 
End quote from Tafseer al-Qurtubi(1/294) 
Secondly: 
With regard to the view that prostration to anything other than Allah is shirk in all cases, because prostration in and of itself is an act of worship that cannot be directed to anyone other than Allah, this is a weak view. This is indicated by the following: 
1.
Allah commanded the angels to prostrate to Adam; if merely prostrating was shirk, Allah would not have commanded them to do that. 
At-Tabari said: “…then fall (you) down prostrating yourselves unto him” [al-Hijr 15:29] – this refers to the prostration of greeting and honour, not the prostration of worship. 
Ibn al-‘Arabi said: The ummah is unanimously agreed that the angels’ prostration to Adam was not a prostration of worship. 
End quote from Ahkaam al-Qur’an(1/27) 
Ibn Hazm az-Zaahiri said: There is no difference of opinion among any of the Muslims that their prostration to Allah, may He be exalted, was a prostration of worship, and their prostration to Adam was a prostration of greeting and respect.
End quote from al-Fasl fi’l-Milal wa’l-Ahwa’ wa’n-Nihal (2/129).
2.
Allah has told us about the prostration of Ya‘qoob and his sons to Yoosuf (peace be upon him). If it were shirk, the Prophets of Allah would not have done it. 
We cannot say that this was part of the religious teachings of those who came before us, because shirk has never been permitted in the teachings of any of the Prophets at all, and the teachings and symbols of Tawheed (affirmation of the oneness of Allah) have not changed from the time of Adam until the time of our Prophet Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). 
At-Tabari said: Ibn Zayd said concerning the verse, “and they fell down before him prostrate” [Yoosuf 12:100]:
That was a prostration by way of honouring and showing respect, as the angels prostrated to Adam by way of honouring and showing respect; it was not a prostration of worship. 
Rather with regard to the one who said that their prostration was a greeting among them, what he meant was that it was a custom on their part and was not by way of worshipping one another, and what may support this view is the fact that this custom continued to be practised by people for a long time, and was not done by way of worshipping one another. 
End quote from Jaami‘ al-Bayaan(13/356) 
Ibn Katheer said:
This was allowed in their laws and teachings: when they greeted an elder, they would prostrate to him. This remained permissible from the time of Adam until the teachings of ‘Eesa (peace be upon him), but this is prohibited for this ummah, and prostration is only for the Lord, may He be glorified and exalted.
End quote from Tafseer al-Qur’an al-‘Azeem (4/412) 
Al-Qaasimi said:
What there can be no doubt about is that it was not a prostration of worship or humility; rather it was a prostration of respect only, beyond a doubt.
End quote from Mahaasin at-Ta’weel(6/250) 
3.
Mu‘aadh prostrated to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when he returned from Syria. If it were shirk, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would have explained that to him, but the most that happened in that regard was that he explained to him that it was not permissible to prostrate to him. 
It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn Abi Awfa said: when Mu‘aadh ibn Jabal came from Syria, he prostrated to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him, who said, “What is this, O Mu‘aadh?” He said, I went to Syria and saw them prostrating to their archbishops and patriarchs, and I wanted to do that for you. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him ) said, “Do not do that. If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman can fulfil her duty towards Allah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband.”
Narrated by Ibn Maajah (1853); classed as hasan by al-Albaani 
Shaykh al-Islam said: It is well known that he did not say: If I were to command anyone to be worshipped.
End quote from Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa(4/360) 
Adh-Dhahabi said:
Do you not see that the Sahaabah, in their great love for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), said: Shouldn’t we prostrate to you? And he said no. If he had given them permission, they would have prostrated to him by way of honouring and showing respect, not by way of worship, as the brothers of Yoosuf (peace be upon him) prostrated to Yoosuf. 
Something similar may be said about the Muslim prostrating to the grave of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) by way of veneration and respect: he does not commit an act of disbelief thereby; rather he is sinning. So he should be told that this is not allowed, and the same applies to praying facing towards the grave. 
End quote from Mu‘jam ash-Shuyookh al-Kabeer (1/73). 
4.
It is proven in some hadiths that some animals prostrated to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). If merely prostrating constituted shirk, this would not have happened in the case of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). 
Shaykh al-Islam said:
Animals used to prostrate to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and animals do not worship any but Allah, so how can it be said that prostrating to something implies worship thereof?
End quote from Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa(4/360) 
5.
“Mere prostration” is one of the shar‘i rulings which may change from one set of laws to another, unlike matters of Tawheed which is to be established in the heart; it is fixed and does not change. 
Shaykh al-Islam said:
With regard to humility and devotion in the heart, acknowledgement of Lordship and servitude, this can never be to anyone except Allah alone, may He be glorified and exalted, and if directed towards anyone other than Him, it is prohibited and invalid. 
As for prostration, it is something that has to do with laws and decrees, because Allah, may He be exalted, has commanded us to prostrate to Him. If He had commanded us to prostrate to any of His creation other than Him, we would have prostrated to that other one, in obedience to Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, if He wanted us to venerate the one to whom we prostrated. If He had not obliged us to prostrate, it would not be obligatory to do it at all. 
The angels’ prostration to Adam was an act of worship to Allah, in obedience to Him and as a means of drawing closer to Him. For Adam it was an honour and a token of respect. 
The prostration of the brothers of Yoosuf to him was a form of greeting. Do you not see that when his parents prostrated to him by way of greeting, Yoosuf did not object to that.
End quote from Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa(4/360) 
6.
Differentiating between prostration by way of greeting and prostration by way of worship is the view of the majority of scholars of different madhhabs. 
Fakhr ad-Deen az-Zayla‘i said:
What they do of kissing the ground before the scholars is haraam, and the one who does that and the one who approves of it are sinning, because it resembles idol worship. 
As-Sadr ash-Shaheed stated that he does not become a disbeliever by doing this prostration, because what he intends thereby is a greeting.
End uqote from Tabyeen al-Haqaa’iq(6/25) 
Ibn Nujaym al-Hanafi said: Prostration to tyrants constitutes disbelief, if what is intended thereby is worship, but not if what is intended thereby is a greeting, according to the view of the majority.
End quote from al-Bahr ar-Raa’iq(5/134). 
An-Nawawi said:
What many of the ignorant do of prostrating before shaykhs is definitely haraam, in all cases, whether it is facing towards the qiblah or otherwise, and whether the intention is to prostrate to Allah, may He be exalted, or it is done out of heedlessness. In some cases it constitutes disbelief or almost does. May Allah, the Most Generous, pardon us. 
End quote from al-Majmoo‘ Sharh al-Muhadhdhab (4/69) 
Shihaab ad-Deen ar-Ramli said: 
Merely prostrating before the shaykhs does not mean that venerating the shaykh is like venerating Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, in the sense that he is worshipped. It only constitutes disbelief if that is the intention. 
End quote from Nihaayat al-Muhtaaj ila Sharh al- Minhaaj (1/122)
Ar-Ruhaybaani said:
Prostrating to rulers or the dead with the intention of worship constitutes disbelief, and this is agreed upon unanimously by the Muslims. Greeting a human being by prostrating to him is a grave major sin.
End quote from Mataalib Ooli an-Nuha(6/278) 
Ash-Shawkaani said:
It is essential to clarify this by noting that if this prostration is done with the intention of affirming the Lordship of the one to whom one prostrates, then by prostrating in this manner he has ascribed a partner to Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, and affirmed that there is another god with Him. 
But if his intention is only to show respect, as happens often with those who enter upon foreign (non-Arab) kings, where they kiss the ground in veneration of the king, this does not constitute disbelief at all. All scholars are agreed that labelling a specific person as a disbeliever is a very serious matter and is not to be taken lightly. 
End quote from as-Sayl al-Jaraar(4/580) 
Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem said:
Bowing when greeting is haraam, if the intention is to greet the person. If it is intended by way of worship, then it constitutes disbelief. 
End quote from Fataawa wa Rasaa’il ash-Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem Aal ash-Shaykh (1/109) 
Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ‘Abd al-Lateef said:
it is well-known that prostration by way of worship, which is based on humility, submission and veneration to Allah alone, is part of Tawheed (affirmation of the Oneness of Allah), to which all the Messengers called. If it is directed to anyone other than Allah, then it is shirk and ascription of rivals to Allah. 
But if a person prostrates to his father or a scholar and the like, and his intention is to offer a greeting and show respect, then this comes under the heading of prohibited matters that are less than shirk. But if the intention is to show submission and humility, then this constitutes shirk. 
End quote from Nawaaqid al-Eemaan al-Qawliyyah wa’l-‘Amaliyyah (p. 278) 

To sum up all of the above: prostration to anyone other than Allah does not constitute disbelief unless it is done by way of worship. But if it is done by way of greeting, it is a major sin but it is not disbelief. 

And Allah knows best.

What is the meaning of the angels prostrating to Adam and Yoosuf’s brothers prostrating to him?


Why did Allah tell the angels to bow to Adam? I thought boing was only allowed for Allah alone. The same goes for Prophet Yusuf, why did his brothers bow to him?

Praise be to Allaah. 
Prostrating is of two kinds:
 It may an act of veneration and drawing closer to the one to whom one prostrates. This kind of prostration is worship, and should only be done for Allaah, according to the laws of the Prophets.
 The second type is a kind of greeting and honouring a person. This is the kind of prostration which Allaah commanded the angels to do in the case of Adam, so they prostrated to him as an act of honouring him. It was an act of worship towards Allaah on their part, because they were obeying His command to prostrate to Adam.
 The prostration of Yoosuf’s parents and brothers was also a prostration of greeting and honouring, which was permissible according to the law (of Allaah) at that time. But according to the sharee’ah brought by the Seal of the Prophets, Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), it is not permissible to prostrate to anyone at all except Allaah. Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If I were to have commanded anyone to prostrate to anyone else, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade Mu’aadh to prostrate to him when he (Mu’aadh) said that the People of the Book prostrated to the great ones among them, and he mentioned the hadeeth quoted above. The prohibition in this sharee’ah against prostrating to anyone at all except Allaah is an aspect of its perfection in achieving true Tawheed. It is the perfect sharee’ah whose perfection is manifested in all its rulings. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“This day, I have perfected your religion for you, completed My Favour upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion” [al-Maa’idah 5:3]

Some Secrets Women Should Know.

Do you know that you can make your spouse/husband be your lover by doing the following:-

"I know that young ladies will never agree with me, but whoever will implement this shall be the happiest of all and shall make a nice home; unless otherwise."

ITEMS

1.  The husband is always right

2.  The husband is always the master of the family even if he has no job and NO MONEY

3.  The wife must ask for permission from the husband before going to bed if the husband isn't yet in bed, as well as before turning her face away from him on the bed. The husband is still the master and has full control on all the operations even in bed

4.  If there is a quarrel with the husband and then a visitor comes, the wife should smile as if nothing happened.

5. Anytime the wife thinks she is right in a matter, she should refer herself to Article number 1.

6.   A good wife must go to bed in her nightdress with no panties or bra, (except during your monthly flow, which he must know about) to allow the husband access to her at any time he feels like (NOTE: All women should note that this is a man's greatest desire in marriage- especially if he loves the woman).

7. A woman MUST NEVER refuse her husband's romance expect on the grounds of health and prayers. Even in such cases she must POLITELY and LOVINGLY explain to him.

8. When the husband is shouting, the wife keeps quiet and that is the time to apologize for whatever has upset him. (NOTE: Apologizing to him after you have shouted back and insulted him DOES NOT WORK!).

10. The wife should always seek the husband's permission before making any decision except where he has previously granted you the permission on that particular issue.

10. A wife should always excuse the husband to the children if he comes home late.

11. Even on a personal matter a wife waits for her husband with her ideas but must take those of her husband when he is back home.

12. The wife must never use work in the day as excuse to deny him at night. Let him be the one to say, "Oh, you must be tired after all the stress of the day!" It is best that way.

13. The wife never goes to sit down in her husband's office unless in an urgent case or an emergency. A good husband too will not come and sit in your office.

14. A good wife does not embark on any kind of expenses without consulting the husband even if it is your own money. A good husband too will not control your money.

15. The best way to settle  misunderstandings is in the bedroom. If a misunderstanding lingers and he does not make a move in bed, A good wife should make the move.

16. The wife never refuses to prepare his meals, even if he is refusing to eat due to annoyance. When he has refused 2 meals, prepare his favorite, with tempting treats.

17. The wife has no orders to give to her husband, but she receives orders from him .

18. The wife must always  respect the husband. Next to freedom of access to his wife's body, this is a man's most important concern.

19. The wife has to control her jealousy and never show it in public.

20. The good wife pays visits to her parents as well as to her in-laws only with the permission of the husband. And under normal circumstances, accompanied by the husband.

21. A good wife never entertains guests in her home without the husband's knowledge and consent. Not even your own relations.

22. NEVER ENTERTAIN ANY MALE GUEST WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE. Not even his own blood brother. He may not talk or complain about some, but be sure he has counted it against you.

23. The wife never goes out anywhere without permission from her husband.

NB:   My dear fellow woman, I want you to know that THE POWER OF A GOOD WIFE IS IN HER WEAKNESS.

Please,  as stupid as this may sound to you, use it and watch your husband become your lover once again. 

Note : this rule have healed over 5 million plus marriages and restored over 10 million marriages that were heading for divorce.

Thanks..

Sunday, November 05, 2017

Who is a Virgin?

WHO IS A VIRGIN?

A virgin is a person who has never had any form of
sexual intercourse before being it penovaginal, anal
or oral SEX ....period!
Couple of years back, in order to encourage people
who have had sex before to abstain, the term
secondary virginity was introduced.

Hymen: _is a thin membrane that partly covers the
vagina. There are different types of hymen and some
can even cover the vagina entirely (imperforated)._
Unfortunately, a lot of people use the presence or
absence of the hymen to determine a female's
virginity. That can be very deceptive because there
are so many ladies out there without their hymen but
have never had sex before. Sadly, they are expected
to bleed on their first sexual intercourse and if it
doesn't happen, then it means they told a lie. This
controversy has gone on for decades and still going
on. A lot of boyfriends and husbands have all lost
trust for their partners due to this issue of virginity.
_Is there anything which determines that a man has
never had sex before?_
There is nothing except what the man says...his word!
_Isn't the word of a female also enough if she says
she is a virgin?_
There are certain activities that can cause a person to
break the hymen. Some of the activities include:
1. Dripping hot or warm water into the vagina of a
baby when bathing for the baby. Some mothers or
caretakers do this in the name of dressing sores
inside the vagina or cleaning the vagina... what a
shock!

2. Some parents or caretakers also punish children
by grinding ginger with pepper and inserting it into
the vagina as a form of punishment.

3. Riding bicycle, motorcycle, horse riding etc are
some of the activities that can cause the hymen to
break.
4. Some people also got their hymen broken due to
medication. Some medicines are inserted into the
vagina which can also cause the hymen to break or
wear off.
In other cases, some also gets their hymen broken
because a paedophile inserted his penis or finger
into the child's vagina (defilement). Innocent and
naive, she may not know or understand what
happened. She may not tell or could not even talk
well or at all, depending on the age or maturity of the
baby or child. She grows up and can't recall herself
having sex with anybody. She thinks herself as a
virgin. _Is she wrong to say she is? Do you blame her
for saying so?_
Some people also break their hymen in the game, ''
*maame ne paapa*'' (a game by children role playing
parents) by using the penis or the finger.
_Is it still worth using the presence or absence of a
females hymen to judge her?_

In any case, what really matters in a relationship?

Is it
the hymen of a person or her attitude and behaviour
that matter?

Its possible to find somebody whose hymen is
broken or have had sex before but his or her heart is
pure and with good character.

It is also possible to
find somebody whose hymen is intact or have not
had penovaginal sex before but the character of that
person is terrible.

There are some people with their hymen intact but
have had sex before.
1. Some people have thick hymen such that they can
have sex several times but the hymen will still be
there. In some situations, such hymen is surgically
removed.

2. Some people intentionally have anal sex in order
to preserve their hymen for men who place high
value on the presence of hymen.

3. Others also engage in oral sex all in the name of
keeping their hymen intact.

Unfortunately for them and their knowledge, these
are all forms of sexual intercourse.

All of them can
also lead to *
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)

It's about time we take a second look at the issue of
virginity otherwise we will continue to treat people
unfairly, push people into doing certain things to
preserve they hymen, make people feel bad for
something which happened to them through no fault
of theirs.

_Even if people have had sex before, don't they
deserve a better relationship or marriage?

_ Most of
the great women and celebrated women and men in
the world including great men and women of God,
did not marry as a virgin.
The present character or behaviour of the person is
what counts and not presence or the absence of
hymen.

FOR PURPOSE OF CLARITY AND FEAR OF BEING
MISUNDERSTOOD...

Virginity is a standard for everyone ( both male and
female) but for the purpose of this writeup, without
any form of bias, no woman should be judged by the
presence or absence of the hymen.

Thanks.

Saturday, November 04, 2017

He ordered me with seven things.


Sayyiduna Abu Dharr (رضي الله عنه) reported that Rasulullah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said:

“My close friend (i.e. Nabi صلى الله عليه وسلم) ordered me with seven things:

(1) To love the poor and to be close to them

(2) To look to those who are less [fortunate] than me and not to those who are above me

(3) To maintain the ties of kinship even if they break them off

(4) To not ask anyone for anything (i.e. to abstain from begging)

(5) To say the truth even if it is unpleasant

(6) To not fear the censure of the critics

(7) To increase in saying: ‘La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah’ (There is no might nor power except with Allah), as it is from the treasures that are underneath the Throne.”

(Musnad Ahmad, vol. 5 pg. 159. Refer: Majma’uz Zawaid, vol. 10 pg. 263)

The Seven

 “There are seven whom Allaah will shade with His shade on the day when there will be no shade except His: the just ruler; a young man who grows up worshipping his Lord; a man whose heart is attached to the mosque; two men who love one another for the sake of Allaah and meet and part on that basis; a man who is called by a woman of rank and beauty and says ‘I fear Allaah’; a man who gives in charity and conceals it to such an extent that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives; and a man who remembers Allaah when he is alone, and his eyes fill up.” (Agreed upon, narrated by al-Bukhaari, no. 620; Muslim, no. 1712

Zinaa (Fornication)


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ZINA

ZINA (Fornication) is a major sin. It incurs the wrath and anger of Allah Ta’ala.

In a country governed by Shariah law, if an unmarried person is convicted of zina, he/she will be punished hundred lashes. If he/she is a married person, he/she will be stoned to death.

When a person commits zina, the essense of Imaan leaves his heart. Rasullullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wassallam said

عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال النبي صلى الله عليه و سلم ( لا يزني الزاني حين يزني وهو مؤمن ولا يشرب الخمر حين يشرب وهو مؤمن ولا يسرق حين يسرق وهو مؤمن ولا ينتهب نهبة يرفع الناس إليه فيها أبصارهم حين ينتهبها وهو مؤمن … صحيح البخاري (2/ 875)

Translation: Narrated by Abu Huraira Radhi Allahu Anhu that the Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, “When an adulterer commits illegal sexual intercourse, then he is not a believer at the time he is doing it; and when somebody drinks an alcoholic drink, then he is not believer at the time of drinking, and when a thief steals, he is not a believer at the time when he is stealing; and when a robber robs and the people look at him, then he is not a believer at the time of doing it.”  (Saheeh al-Bukhari)

SADNESS

The best of cures for sadness is to know that one cannot bring back what he has missed and that by being sad, one is just adding a misfortune to an already existing misfortune thus making it two misfortunes.

Ibn al-Jawzee (RAHIMAHULLAAH)

°⌣̊┈̥ -̶̯͡🌟🌟🌟┈┈┉
┆      *HADITH*   
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˚°⌣̊┈̥ -̶̯͡🌟🌟🌟┈┈┉

_Sayyiduna Abdullah ibn Umar Radhiyallahu Anhu reports that_

Nabi Sallallahu Alayhi wa Sallam) said,

“Whoever imitates a nation is from among them.”

(Sunan Abi Dawud)

✍Thoughts!

_Allah has helped you from tough situations before. Don’t allow a new circumstance to cause you to forget how merciful He has been...._

_Some people just love to pick on you & your mistakes. They actually feel inferior to you. Stay calm. Know that they're the problem; not you._

_Do not let death be the moment you realize your worldly attachments deceived you..._

_Dua!_

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم.                                                  اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله واصحابه وبارك وسلم كما تحب و ترضي بعدد ما تحب و ترضي يا كريم.                                                    اللهم احفظني من  بين يدي و من خلفي و عن يميني و عن شمالي و من فوقي ،
و أعوذ بعظمتك أن اغتال من تحتي.

O Allaah, grant me protection from in front of me, from behind me, on my right, on my left and from above me And I seek protection in Your greatness that I become destroyed  ( by any disaster ) from beneath me.

آمــــــــــين  يا رب العالمين آمین يا ارحم الراحمين
و صلى الله على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله واصحابه وبارك وسلم آمــــــــــين.

When a command comes from Allaah.

When a command comes from Allaah تعالى and His Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم, then all the reasoning, personal opinions, the logic behind it, the pros and cons etc. etc. take a backseat. When a command is known, then immediate and complete submission is required.

{It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allaah and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allaah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed in a plain error. } [Surah al-Ahzaab (33): 36]

Narrated `Alee ibn AbuTaalib رضي الله عنه: “If the religion were based on opinion, it would be more important to wipe the under part of the shoe than the upper but I have seen the Messenger of Allaah صلى الله عليه وسلم  wiping over the upper part of his shoes.” [Sunan Abu Dawood (162, 164) and graded as “Saheeh” by Shaikh al-Albaanee]

When Allaah تعالى informed the Angels that He is going to create man, they asked Him the reason why He تعالى would create someone who would do mischief on earth and will spill blood. But when the command came to prostrate, all of them prostrated immediately.

Another Example:
Some of the Companions were praying facing towards Bait al-Maqdis. But, when they were informed that the direction of the Qiblah has changed, they immediately changed their direction, while they were still in Rukoo` (bowing position). [Saheeh al-Bukhaaree]

Similarly:
When the command of the prohibition of wine came, some of the Companions who used to drink immediately broke the containers in which wine was stored. They did not wait to say let us enjoy our last sip, or we’ll stop from tomorrow.

Saying/Sending "Jum'ah Mubarak" on Fridays. The Islamic Perspective

Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly: 

There is no doubt that Friday is an “Eid” or “festival” for the Muslims, as it says in the hadeeth narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “This is a day of ‘Eid that Allah has ordained for the Muslims, so whoever comes to Jumu‘ah, let him do ghusl, and if he has any perfume let him put some on, and you should use the miswaak.” Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1098; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah. 

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said, describing the special virtues of Friday: 

Thirteen: It is a day of ‘Eid that is repeated every week. 

Zaad al-Ma‘aad, 1/369 

Thus the Muslims have three Eids: Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, which come once every year, and Jumu‘ah which is repeated once every week. 

Secondly: 

With regard to the Muslims congratulating one another on the occasions of Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, this is prescribed and it is narrated from the Sahaabah (may Allah be pleased with them). This has been discussed previously in the answers to questions no. 49021 and 36442. As for congratulating one another on the occasion of Friday, what seems to us to be the case is that it is not prescribed, because the fact that Friday is an Eid was known to the Sahaabah (may Allah be pleased with them), and they were more knowledgeable than us about its virtues, and they were keen to respect it and give it its due, but there is no report to suggest that they used to congratulate one another on Fridays. And all goodness is in following them (may Allah be pleased with them). 

Shaykh Saalih ibn Fawzaan (may Allah preserve him) was asked: What is the ruling on sending text messages every Friday and ending with the phrase “Jumu‘ah mubaarak”? 

He replied: 

The early generation did not congratulate one another on Fridays, so we should not introduce anything that they did not do.

End quote from Ajwabat As’ilah Majallat al-Da‘wah al-Islamiyyah. 

A similar fatwa was issued by Shaykh Sulaymaan al-Maajid (may Allah preserve him), when he said: 

We do not think it is prescribed to exchange congratulations on Fridays, such as saying to one another, “Jumu‘ah mubaarak” and so on, because it comes under the heading of du‘aa’s and dhikrs, which must be based on a text (of the Qur’aan or Sunnah) because this is purely the matter of worship and if it were good, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) would have done it before us. If anyone suggests that this is permissible, then that may imply that it is prescribed to say du‘aa’s and congratulate one another after having done the five daily prayers and other acts of worship, and du‘aa’ at these times was not done by the early generations.

The Deviants

THIS HADITH MAY HELP THE DEVIANTS, ALBIDAH.

حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي مَرْيَمَ، أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا حُمَيْدُ بْنُ أَبِي حُمَيْدٍ الطَّوِيلُ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَنَسَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ يَقُولُ جَاءَ ثَلاَثَةُ رَهْطٍ إِلَى بُيُوتِ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَسْأَلُونَ عَنْ عِبَادَةِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَلَمَّا أُخْبِرُوا كَأَنَّهُمْ تَقَالُّوهَا فَقَالُوا وَأَيْنَ نَحْنُ مِنَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَدْ غُفِرَ لَهُ مَا تَقَدَّمَ مِنْ ذَنْبِهِ وَمَا تَأَخَّرَ‏.‏ قَالَ أَحَدُهُمْ أَمَّا أَنَا فَإِنِّي أُصَلِّي اللَّيْلَ أَبَدًا‏.‏ وَقَالَ آخَرُ أَنَا أَصُومُ الدَّهْرَ وَلاَ أُفْطِرُ‏.‏ وَقَالَ آخَرُ أَنَا أَعْتَزِلُ النِّسَاءَ فَلاَ أَتَزَوَّجُ أَبَدًا‏.‏ فَجَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ ‏

‏ أَنْتُمُ الَّذِينَ قُلْتُمْ كَذَا وَكَذَا أَمَا وَاللَّهِ إِنِّي لأَخْشَاكُمْ لِلَّهِ وَأَتْقَاكُمْ لَهُ، لَكِنِّي أَصُومُ وَأُفْطِرُ، وَأُصَلِّي وَأَرْقُدُ وَأَتَزَوَّجُ النِّسَاءَ، فَمَنْ رَغِبَ عَنْ سُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي ‏"Narrated Anas bin Malik:

A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet (pbuh) asking how the Prophet (pbuh) worshipped (Allah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where are we from the Prophet (pbuh) as his past and future sins have been forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever." The other said, "I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever." Allah's Messenger (pbuh) came to them and said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers).

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5063
In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 1
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 1  (deprecated numbering scheme)

The best husband

🌹The Best Husband ..
1. Shows good character and good manners towards his wife.
2. Doesn’t slack when it comes to the rights of his wife.
3. Does not check out any other woman other than his wife.
4. Learns and practises Islam and teaches his wife too.
5. Is there for his wife during times of distress.
6. Keeps his cool even when his wife hurts his feelings.
7. Appreciates his wife and forgives small mistakes.
8. Helps out with household chores and doesn’t just leave them to the wife.
9. Does his best to raise their children in an Islamic way.
May Allah grant all sisters in Islam husbands who protect them and take care of them and May Allah grant our brothers the ability to do so, Ameen.🌹