Gentleness & Softness are Always Excellent. They Bring About Unity, Love & Peace.
On the contrary, Harshness Brings About Disunity & Instability.
For husband & wife to live in harmony, they must admire & be merciful to one another. Further, she must respect him, & he must be kind to her.
Your husband deserves to be respected. Be obedient in good, polite, keep on smiling, take care of his desire & stomach & avoid suspicion.
Your dearest wife deserves massive kindness. Be kind to her in everything: Feed her; cloth her; educate her; accommodate her; & pardon her.
Your Wife is neither a slave nor a housekeeper. She is your companion that partakes in division of labour with you to establish an ideal family.
Conflict is inevitable in marriage. Kindness, fair hearing, forgiveness, justice & softness bring about stability & harmony in marital life.
Wife is the shepherd of d household. Her responsibility is a huge one. She is an institution that produces all scholars & pious leaders globally.
Are you looking for a faultless wife? A wife that can't offend you at all? If yes, then no one in this world, but rather in Paradise. Be kind please.
The Prophet ص would say, "The best among you is he who is kindest to his wife & I'm kindest to my wife". No so-called Feminism can beat this.
As wife, your husband is neither a messenger nor an aide. He deserves your massive respect for his spending, etc. Imagine your life without him?
The attitude of "I am always right" by both husband & wife, brings about chaos & pandemonium in marital life. No one of you is infallible, please.
Both husband & wife must be convinced that to err is human. They must be ready to serve as a mirror to one another. Accept when corrected.
Wives naturally, like to be praised for- their adornment, marital relationship & cooking. Always remember to say to her "you are superb & Unique".
Satan tries to be a stakeholder in our marital life. If one spouse is ANGRY, the other must not be ANGRY. Otherwise, Satan has defeated both.
Husband & wife should try to be talking to one another with a Smiling Face. It is an act of Ibadah, romantic could lower stress level. Smile always.
Marital life is a source of tranquillity & peace. It is also the best pleasure of this world. Married couple should always try to achieve that.
RIGHTEOUS!
Whomever is blessed with a righteous wife, completed half of his religion, so let him fear Almighty with regard to d other half.
Always say to your wife: “If you see me angry, calm me down, & if I see you angry I will calm you down, otherwise we can't live together honourably”.
For a successful marriage, married couple are urged to control their tongues, & avoid foul speaking by using them freely against each other.
Harsh tongue & aggressive tone will not change your spouse- wife or husband. Rather, you should use kind & gentle words, which is act of charity.
Husband & Wife should try to keep their secret, confidential. It must remain within their boundaries. It should not be exposed to outsiders.
The best solution for any marital problem is through ENDURANCE & GENTLENESS. Words & Decisions taken in ANGER & HIGH EMOTIONS are rash & wrong.
Unsolicited & unexpected gift strengthens LOVE & MERCY between married couple. Try to surprise your wife/husband, from time to time with nice gifts.
Married couple should avoid undermining the roles of each other in building the family. The roles of each can't be played by the other effectively and efficiently.
For married couple, there must be moments of happiness & sadness. For happiness both should be grateful, while for sadness, be patient & pray.
May Allah save our marriage at this age-of-divorce. (Aameen)
Ma'a Salaam.
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