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Dear Brothrer in Islam, As Salam O Alikum, my question is in regards to the same topic that has been asked so many times, and in particular refers to Oral Sex between husband and wife, is it permissible for a man to lick, suck and touch his wife's vagina? and similarly can a woman do the same, i.e. lick or suck her husband's penis, however, as you stated it is permisible a long as it is not used as a means to avoid having intercourse, and is allowed if it provokes sexual desires within the couple, and is beneficiary in terms of satisfaction, however my question is, what happens if either the wife or the husband ejeculates, i.e. the sperm goes in the wife's mouth, is it haram then? or what if she swallows it? and similarly what if the wife gets an orgasm whilst the husband is sucking her vagina and it goes in his mouth? is it considered haram? Please forgive my use of foul language, but please note that since we reside in a non muslim country, we have often had arguements, and come across muslim friends who state oral sex as permissible, but then again there are scholar who argue, saying that it is not quite permissible if either the lubricatnt or the sperm goes in the wifes mouth or the vaginal releases after or before orgasm goes in the husband's mouth as this is considered unclean and nifas, please kindly provide specific answer to my question with ahadiths and evidence from both Quran and the Hadiths books, as this will allow not only us, but other muslim couples with the knowledge as to what they are doing is permissible or not, and personally i know quite a few friends who are unmarried and believe that it is permissible, and would do oral sex after marriage, and would like to know if the ejacualtion of sperm or lubricant or vaginal releases reaching ones mouth is permissible or not jazak ALLAH khair for the answer in advance may this question be of benefit to all the the other brothers and sisters in Islam, and may ALLAH give us the taufeek and hidayah to do the rightious deeds, Ameen Wassalam..
Dear Brothrer in Islam, As Salam O Alikum, my question is in regards to the same topic that has been asked so many times, and in particular refers to Oral Sex between husband and wife, is it permissible for a man to lick, suck and touch his wife's vagina? and similarly can a woman do the same, i.e. lick or suck her husband's penis, however, as you stated it is permisible a long as it is not used as a means to avoid having intercourse, and is allowed if it provokes sexual desires within the couple, and is beneficiary in terms of satisfaction, however my question is, what happens if either the wife or the husband ejeculates, i.e. the sperm goes in the wife's mouth, is it haram then? or what if she swallows it? and similarly what if the wife gets an orgasm whilst the husband is sucking her vagina and it goes in his mouth? is it considered haram? Please forgive my use of foul language, but please note that since we reside in a non muslim country, we have often had arguements, and come across muslim friends who state oral sex as permissible, but then again there are scholar who argue, saying that it is not quite permissible if either the lubricatnt or the sperm goes in the wifes mouth or the vaginal releases after or before orgasm goes in the husband's mouth as this is considered unclean and nifas, please kindly provide specific answer to my question with ahadiths and evidence from both Quran and the Hadiths books, as this will allow not only us, but other muslim couples with the knowledge as to what they are doing is permissible or not, and personally i know quite a few friends who are unmarried and believe that it is permissible, and would do oral sex after marriage, and would like to know if the ejacualtion of sperm or lubricant or vaginal releases reaching ones mouth is permissible or not jazak ALLAH khair for the answer in advance may this question be of benefit to all the the other brothers and sisters in Islam, and may ALLAH give us the taufeek and hidayah to do the rightious deeds, Ameen Wassalam..
| Answer: Bismillahir-RaHmanir-RaHeem. It is permissible. Allah Almighty says in Holy Quran chapter number 2 Al-Baqarah, verse number 222 and 223: -"They ask thee concerning womens courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves, ye may approach them as ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly; and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean. -Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.".(Holy Quran 2:222 and 223) Based on this, all acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a wife while she is still in her menstruation or post partum bleeding. A husband/wife can satisfy her wife/husband through other avenues. A wife can masturbate her husband; similarly a husband is perfectly justified in satisfying his wife through other avenues; he could very well masturbate her; if he were to do this, he is working within the perfect limits of Islam. A person masturbating on himself/herself is not allowed in Islam except in dire necessity where one fears falling into adultery; marriage is intended in Islam to be a shield against that. So being married, you should never be forced into this option. Eminent Muslim scholar Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi: "The Qur'an emphasizes the spiritual objectives of marriage, making them the foundations of marital life. These objectives are realized in the peace of mind which comes through wholesome sexual experience with the spouse whom one loves, in the enlargement of the circle of love and affection between the two families united through marriage, and in the nurturing of affection and tenderness among the children under the loving care of their parents. These are the objectives mentioned by Allah in the verse that reads: "And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell with them in tranquility, and He has put love and mercy between you. Indeed, in this are signs for those who reflect." (Ar-Rum: 21) At the same time, the Qur'an does not neglect the sensual aspect and the physical relationship between husband and wife. It guides human beings to the best path, fulfilling the demands of the sexual urge while avoiding harmful or deviant practices." Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He, says: "And who guard their modesty, save from their wives or the slaves, that I heir right hands possess, for then they are not blameworthy, but Who so craveth beyond that, such are transgressors." (Al-Mu'minun: 5-7)" In the light of this, scholars maintain that the husband is allowed to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment except anal sex, for that is forbidden. May Allah guide us all to the straight path! Wassalam and Allah Almighty knows best. |
| Reference: IslamiCity Source:- http://www.islamicity.org/qa/action.lasso.asp?-db=services&-lay=Ask&-op=eq&number=29633&-format=detailpop.shtml&-find |
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